ASK AGAIN LATER
Emily has a tendency to live with one foot out the door. For her, the best thing about a family crisis is the excuse to cut and run. When her mother dramatically announces they’ve found a lump, Emily gladly takes a rain check on life to be by her mother’s side, leaving behind her career, her boyfriend, and those pesky, unanswerable questions about who she is and what she’s doing with her life.
But back in her childhood bedroom, Emily realizes that she hasn’t run fast or far enough. One evening, while her mother calls everyone in her Rolodex to brief them on her medical crisis and schedule a farewell martini,
Emily has a tendency to live with one foot out the door. For her, the best thing about a family crisis is the excuse to cut and run. When her mother dramatically announces they’ve found a lump, Emily gladly takes a rain check on life to be by her mother’s side, leaving behind her career, her boyfriend, and those pesky, unanswerable questions about who she is and what she’s doing with her life.
But back in her childhood bedroom, Emily realizes that she hasn’t run fast or far enough. One evening, while her mother calls everyone in her Rolodex to brief them on her medical crisis and schedule a farewell martini, Emily opens the door, quite literally, to find her past staring her in the face. How do you forge a relationship with the father who left when you were five years old? As Emily attempts to find balance on the emotional seesaw of her life, with the help of two hopeful suitors and her Park Avenue Princess sister, she takes a no-risk job as a receptionist at her father’s law firm and slowly gets to know the man she once pretended was dead.
From the brainy, breezy writer who “writes like a professional comic” (The Onion) and is “hard to stop reading once you start” (USA Today) comes a laugh-out-loud tale that confirms you can recover from your parents, the bad habit of missed opportunities, and men who romance you with meat. When opportunity knocks, it’s time to stop running and start living.
- Harper Paperbacks
- Paperback
- January 2008
- 272 Pages
- 9780060875978
About Jill A Davis
Jill A. Davis was a writer for The Late Show with David Letterman, where she received five Emmy nominations. She has also written several network pilots, screenplays, and short stories. She lives in New York City with her husband and daughter.
Praise
“Hilarious, heartfelt…Davis’s witty voice is pitch-perfect.” —Entertainment Weekly
“[Davis work[s] magic with dialogue that crackles with electricity between highly charged characters and is often as funny for what’s left unsaid…” —Los Angeles Times
“The writing and the characters lend the book an emotional heft. . .[Davis] articulates feelings of loss like someone who has spent a lot of time with shrinks—and comedians.”
— Time Out New York
“It’s a cross between Bridget Jones’s Diary and One True Thing (and we mean that in a good way).” — Boston Globe
Discussion Questions
How does Emily’s job as receptionist at her father’s law firm enable her to better understand her father?
How do Joanie’s diagnosis of cancer and Marjorie’s giving birth to little Malcolm change their respective relationships with Emily, and to what extent are those relationships dysfunctional?
In what ways do Emily’s conversations with Wendy and Will at her father’s firm reveal the peculiar aspects of that office’s culture, and why is that culture especially comforting to Emily?
How does the structure of Ask Again Later, with its short segmented chapters and its frequent flashbacks, affect your appreciation of Emily’s response to her mother’s crisis?
To what extent does Emily’s decision to leave her boyfriend, Sam, stem from his criticism of and frustration with her inability to commit?
What does Emily hope to achieve by eavesdropping on her father’s telephone conversations, and why does she hold him accountable for all of her unsatisfactory relationships with men?
To what extent do Emily’s sessions with her therapist, Paul, demonstrate her aversion to making sense of her ‘internal life’? Why might she be unwilling to explore what is at the root of her unhappiness?
In what respects is Emily’s father, Jim, the catalyst for her renewed relationship with her ex-boyfriend, Sam?
How do Joanie’s surprising revelations about her children’s early years impact Emily’s feelings for her father?
How does Emily’s longing for a child relate to all that she has experienced as an adult child of divorced parents in the course of Ask Again Later?